GALENA, Ill. — Robert Mahan once began thinking about how he would feel about closing the Galena bed-and-breakfast he owns with his husband, Douglas, while cleaning a toilet.

“I got sad thinking about never cleaning another toilet again,” he said. “Never once in eight years have I woken up and thought, ‘Oh, I don’t want to do this today.’ That’s how you know you love what you do.”

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